If you grew up with one foot in the analog world and the other in the digital one, this list is going to feel like opening a time capsule. We are the in between generation. We grew up making mix CDs and now run businesses from our phones. We survived dial up internet and the original Facebook. We remember the long phone cord in the kitchen and now have to remind our kids to call their friends back.

If you’re a Xennial woman, you lived through an entire cultural shift in real time. And honestly, it shows in the best possible way.

Here are the signs you are absolutely, undeniably a Xennial Girl.

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The Analog Childhood Era of the Xennial Girl

1. You remember the exact sound of dial up connecting.
2. You had a favorite gel pen and guarded it with your life.
3. You made collages from Seventeen Magazine like it was an Olympic sport.
4. You taped posters to your bedroom wall and they always peeled the paint.
5. The mall was your social life and your personality.
6. You waited a full week to see if your film photos turned out.
7. You had a Lisa Frank folder that felt like pure luxury.
8. You know the pain of rewinding a VHS with a pencil.
9. You made friendship bracelets at sleepovers and wore them until they fell off.
10. You had a sticker collection with rules no one else was allowed to touch.
11. You made mixtapes off the radio and prayed the DJ wouldn’t talk over the intro.
12. Your walkman skipping was a personal tragedy.
13. Blockbuster nights were a full family negotiation.
14. You had an address book filled with your friends’ home numbers.
15. You passed notes in class with intricate folds.
16. The first time you got mail addressed to you felt like adulthood.
17. Your Trapper Keeper was a core personality trait.
18. You ironed patches on your jean jacket.
19. You saved up babysitting money for Bath and Body Works.
20. Roller rinks were where friendships were made and broken.
21. Saturday morning cartoons were a whole event.
22. You learned patience from waiting for your song to come on the radio.
23. You know exactly what a landline with a tangled cord feels like against your shoulder.
24. You had a favorite TV theme song.
25. You wrote in a diary with a tiny lock that definitely did not work.

The Teen Years of Becoming a Xennial Girl

26. You remember the exact sound of dial up connecting.
27. You had a favorite gel pen and guarded it with your life.
28. You made collages from Seventeen Magazine like it was an Olympic sport.
29. You taped posters to your bedroom wall and they always peeled the paint.
30. The mall was your social life and your personality.
31. You waited a full week to see if your film photos turned out.
32. You had a Lisa Frank folder that felt like pure luxury.
33. You know the pain of rewinding a VHS with a pencil.
34. You made friendship bracelets at sleepovers and wore them until they fell off.
35. You had a sticker collection with rules no one else was allowed to touch.
36. You made mixtapes off the radio and prayed the DJ wouldn’t talk over the intro.
37. Your walkman skipping was a personal tragedy.
38. Blockbuster nights were a full family negotiation.
39. You had an address book filled with your friends’ home numbers.
40. You passed notes in class with intricate folds.
41. The first time you got mail addressed to you felt like adulthood.
42. Your Trapper Keeper was a core personality trait.
43. You ironed patches on your jean jacket.
44. You saved up babysitting money for Bath and Body Works.
45. Roller rinks were where friendships were made and broken.
46. Saturday morning cartoons were a whole event.
47. You learned patience from waiting for your song to come on the radio.
48. You know exactly what a landline with a tangled cord feels like against your shoulder.
49. You had a favorite TV theme song.
50. You wrote in a diary with a tiny lock that definitely did not work.

The Early Adulting Era of a Xennial Girl

51. You joined Facebook when it was only for college students.
52. You remember your first text message bill.
53. You had a Blackberry phase and felt very important.
54. You discovered Pinterest before it was Pinterest.
55. You made a wedding board long before getting engaged.
56. You bought candles because of YouTube hauls.
57. You survived the original Instagram filters.
58. You saved memes in a folder before the word meme existed.
59. You know how to code-switch between professional email voice and friend email voice.
60. You remember when you had to download music one painful song at a time.
61. You printed photos and put them in frames.
62. You decorated with word art signs for a season and pretend you didn’t.
63. You had a camera roll with 20 photos total.
64. You once rented a movie on iTunes and felt futuristic.
65. You watched the rise of the influencer world in real time.
66. Your first job probably paid you in experience.
67. You once brought a digital camera to the bar.
68. You remember when Netflix mailed DVDs.
69. You owned at least one maxi dress.
70. You lived through the era of low-rise jeans and survived to tell the tale.
71. You had an early Pinterest board titled “Someday.”
72. You remember the chaos of group texts before emojis.
73. You hosted dinner parties with Pinterest recipes and too many candles.
74. You celebrated getting your first smart TV like a milestone.
75. You still think fondly of your first apartment.

The Midlife Awakening Era of the Xennial Girl

76. You crave slower mornings now.
77. You only want friendships that feel safe and real.
78. You have no interest in performing online.
79. You’re done with hustle culture.
80. You want clothes that feel good, not costumes.
81. You love a good system.
82. You finally understand your values.
83. You trust your intuition more than trends.
84. You want less noise, more clarity.
85. You want to like your life, not just manage it.
86. You know, or are learning, how to say no without apologizing.
87. You are building a softer life and it feels right.
88. You value beauty, but you need it to feel real.
89. You view aging as becoming.
90. You want a home that feels like you, not a catalog.
91. You know the exact moment your body said enough.
92. You crave spaciousness more than success.
93. You feel more yourself now than ever.
94. You are editing everything that drains you.
95. You appreciate the magic of ordinary days.
96. You love women your age more than ever before.
97. You think often about legacy and meaning.
98. You believe your best chapter might still be ahead.
99. You finally feel like the main character of your own life.
100. You realize you are not lost. You are evolving.

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